Re: CALL TO ARMS : ATTENTION HEROMORPHERS!!!!! READ....NOW...please.

Posted by Dark_Knight_DK on 2013/5/8 21:35:55

I have a recent experience at this matter, my wife and I broke up 6 months ago after a 10 years relationship, I want us to get back together again, but she doesn't wants to, she doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and I can't blame her, to tell you the truth guys, this mess is on me, I wasn't there for her when she need me the most, I was so egocentric, the only thing that I thought about were my problems and I was to self absorbed that I forgot to bring love and happiness to the relationship, now that we are apart I know all the bad things that I did to her, she felt so lonely and I didn't wanted to see it, I took her for granted and I feel so sad for that, I'm seeing a therapist that is helping me to work my problems and to grow up, and I'm trying with all my heart to be a better person to put in other words become a "new" me, so I won't repeat the same mistakes of the past. Now I know what kind of woman was at my side, and not one day goes by without me thinking about her and wishing to go back in time to prevent all this mess. I hope one day she could give me a second chance, because she is THE ONE, and I push her away, believe me these months have been a real nightmare I loosed a lot of weight and I was really depressed, now I'm better and in control again, but I still think about her, and I still hope for that second chance, but I know that maybe I won't have it and I have to be strong and go on in life with a better attitude.

The only good thing about this separation was that it opened my eyes, it was a wake up call, now I know what I did wrong, and I'm trying to amend all the wrong things that I did to her and to me.

Luckily we're still in touch, we had lunch together a few times, but even with the "new" me (and she likes that) she still doesn't gives me another chance, but I still have hopes, but like I said before I have to be realistic.

Daswook: I'm glad you found someone that makes you happy, every person needs that... If I don't get back with my ex, I really hope that the same thing that happened to you happens to me, because my possibility to get back together with her again is zero.

Wolf: I'm glad you're better in your health I really am, but I'm sorry about your divorce, it really sucks at this moment of your life, but the important thing is that you're not alone, you have your family, your friends and us, the HM family, so keep up man!!


BTW: Sorry to vent this here, but with Wolf and daswook post I saw an opportunity to talk about my situation, and I have found that it is therapeutic to talk about it.